Embracing Neurodivergence, a conversation

Description

Step into a powerful and intimate conversation with author and counsellor Niki Bonfield, in discussion with Vee Abarzua, as they explore the deeply personal journey of late-diagnosed autism.

Drawing on her memoirs Fragmented Yet Whole: Embracing Neurodivergence, Healing and Self‑Discovery and her new release Becoming Me Neurodivergently: A Memoir of Unmasking, Belonging and Becoming, Niki shares her story with honesty, warmth, and insight.

Through lived experience and therapeutic reflection, this event delves into what it means to discover your neurodivergence later in life, navigating trauma, unmasking long-held identities, and finding your place in the world. Niki also speaks candidly about the complexities and beauty of parenting while neurodivergent.

This is more than a conversation, it’s an opportunity to reflect on identity, belonging, and healing, and to consider what it takes to rebuild a life with clarity and self-compassion.

Whether you’re exploring your own experiences, supporting someone you love, or simply curious to learn more, this event offers a welcoming and validating space to listen, connect, and feel understood.

Join us for a powerful conversation filled with insight, connection, and meaningful conversation.

Meet the presenters

Niki Bonfield is a counsellor and writer whose work centres on trauma, identity, and neurodivergent lived experience. Diagnosed autistic in adulthood, she explores healing, unmasking, and belonging in her memoirs Fragmented Yet Whole and Becoming Me Neurodivergently.

Vee Abarzua is the founder of Mingle Co, a community‑driven organisation dedicated to creating safe, affirming spaces for genuine human connection. Through thoughtfully curated events, she brings people together in ways that honour authenticity, belonging, and shared experience. Her interviewing style is warm, intuitive, and deeply people‑centred.

FAQs

How do I get to the State Library by public transport?

The 'State Library, Art Gallery, Museum' tram-stop is just outside the State Library. There are bus stops close by, near the War Memorial on North Terrace. The closest train station is the Adelaide city station on North Terrace.

You can plan your journey via Adelaide Metro.

Is there car parking near the State Library?

The nearest car park is Wilson's Adelaide Central car park, 225 North Terrace, next to David Jones.

There is paid (metered) street parking along Kintore Ave and Victoria Drive.

Where is the wheelchair and stroller access?

Access to the Spence Wing first floor and the Mortlock Chamber is via the lift in the glass foyer entrance of the library.

There is on-street disabled parking available on the nearby roads. View more information and maps of Adelaide City Council's Disability parking for permit holders.

How do I check if the Mortlock Chamber is open when I plan to visit?

The Mortlock Chamber may close for private events, check our opening hours for any closure times.

When it is open you can visit the Mortlock Chamber on the ground floor to look at the exhibition bays.  The upper levels of the Mortlock Wing include  study areas.

Is there a cafe at the State Library?

Yes, the State Library Cafe is open Monday to Friday from 8am to 4pm and Saturdays from 12 to 4pm.

Find out more about the cafe and resident organisations at the State Library.